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Warm, recognizable stories about couples trying to love each other well in the middle of real life.

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couple facing each other, and a text in the background saying Chris Misses Lena. Unfortunately So Do the Kids.
StoryEpisode 0717 min read

Chris Misses Lena. Unfortunately, So Do the Kids.

Chris and Lena love their three kids. Deeply. They would also like to finish one conversation without being asked for water, a charger, help finding something directly in front of someone, or an emergency ruling on whether tomorrow is pajama day. Somewhere inside the family they built, they realize they miss each other too.

Oct 1, 2026Read →
Sam and Nina in bed, with sam gently kissing her shoulder, and she has one eye open because she is sleepy.
StoryEpisode 0618 min read

EP 6: Sam Wants Sex. Nina Wants Sleep.

Sam wants sex at night. Nina would prefer that he stop waiting until she has used up nearly all available humanity. What starts as a timing problem reveals years of unspoken assumptions about desire, initiation, pleasure, and what neither of them quite knew how to say.

Sep 24, 2026Read →
husband dancing funny in kitchen, and wife standing next to the refrigerator looking at him, and kids at the table, with son looking disappointed, and daughter smiling
StoryEpisode 0517 min read

EP 5: Ben Is Dancing? Claire Has Questions.

Ben starts dancing in the kitchen. Claire is not entirely convinced that “dancing” is the correct word. Somewhere between children, work, errands, and becoming respectable adults, they begin wondering when they stopped being quite so ridiculous together.

Sep 17, 2026Read →
husband and wife sitting in the living room with lots of charts and papers showing they are getting things done together.
StoryEpisode 0418 min read

EP 4: Maya and Daniel Are Running a Very Efficient Household

Maya and Daniel have the bills paid, the kids scheduled, the groceries ordered, and the household running with impressive efficiency. The only thing they may have forgotten to keep up with is each other.

Sep 10, 2026Read →
couples Eli and Naomi sitting next to each other. Naomi on the laptop, and Eli with a mug looking upset that Naomi does not understand that he is not fine
StoryEpisode 0317 min read

EP 3: Eli Said “I’m Fine.” Naomi Believed Him.

Eli says he’s fine. Naomi makes the apparently reckless decision to believe him. What follows is a mildly ridiculous evening of sighs, hidden meanings, family interference, and one important discovery: being deeply known is not the same thing as being magically readable.

Sep 4, 2026Read →
Grace stands fully dressed for an anniversary dinner while Andre searches for his missing dress shoe, with family chaos unfolding around them.
StoryEpisode 0215 min read

EP 2: Grace Has Been Ready Since 6:22. Andre Is Looking for His Other Shoe

Grace has been ready since 6:22. Andre is still taking out the trash, helping a child find a water bottle, and—somehow—missing one shoe. What looks like a fight about being late turns into a funny, tender lesson about patience, consideration, and learning not to turn every difference into a verdict on the person you love.

Aug 28, 2026Read →
A cartoon image showing Marcus and Tasha and their two kids doing separate things in the kitchen
StoryEpisode 0113 min read

EP 1: Marcus Needs Space. Tasha Needs an Answer.

Marcus needs a little space. Tasha needs to know whether “later” means twenty minutes or next Tuesday. One ordinary Tuesday night becomes a funny, tender lesson in how to step away without leaving the person you love behind.

Aug 21, 2026Read →